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Saturday, January 16, 2010

Happy Birthday Aaliyah


Todays marks what would have been the 31st Birthday of my all time favorite entertainer Aaliyah. As a young girl I truly admired her, mimicking her dancing moves, and imitating her style! I constantly had the "Aaliyah swoop", she was truly ONE IN A MILLION and her presence will live on forever through her devoted fans and music and movies she left behind. HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABYGIRL

HELPING HAITI!


I am truly saddened by the recent devastating earthquake that has taken the lives of over 20,000+ Haitians! Watching reports and seeing pictures of the incident left me literally lost for words. Earthquakes are unexpected and hard to calculate when and how much they will affect where they hit. Haiti really needs all the help that we can give! My foundation SILVA LINING is working towards helping out the people in Haiti, in a major way. When everything is finalized I will let you all know. Meanwhile be sure to donate to WYCLEFS foundation, by texting "Yele" to 501501 to donate $5, as many time as you can afford to, towards the effort of relief! As humankind it is our responsibility to help! And remeber they will need our help for months, even years to come as well!

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Lil'Kim...Nicki Minaj...BARBIE



Rapper Nicki Minaj is making quite a name for herself and has a huge fan based following! I'm glad to see a fresh faces for female rap. I love female rappers,rap is primarily a males game, but when a strong women is on the scene is that much better! My all time favorite rapper has to be Lil' Kim! When she came on the scene with BIG and Junior Mafia, it was a breath of fresh air, up until then female rappers wore baggy clothes and rapped about violence! While women are just as tough as men,Lil' Kim revitalize the female rapper by coming out sexy and not afraid or ashamed to talk about her sexuality. Over the years Lil' Kim went from the cute girl from Junior Mafia to a sex icon, naming herself THE BLACK BARBIE! Now years later we have Nicki Minaj who is drawing many comparisons to Lil' Kim! I actually look at Young Money as the new Junior Mafia which is a huge compliment. Nicki refers to herself as BARBIE, and she is very animated! I do not believe that Nicki is "trying" to be Lil' Kim, but I am sure she has to credit Lil'Kim for influence! I think BARBIE is so idolized because of what she truly stands for, she is gorgeous,has had every career, has love, a dream house, corvette and equally gorgeous friends, she represent s the perfect life, something that women strive for. What little girl did not want to be a BARBIE growing up? So that is why I think rappers Lil'Kim and Nicki Minaj have identified with BARBIE DOLL!
Now onto Nicki MInaj's BARBIE MOVEMENT!! It is amazing how quickly Nicki Minaj has gotten such dedicated fans. In the past few months every time I have went out to a party, there have been at least 3 girls emulating Nicki's style of dress and/or hair. Now this bothers me! It is something that I would expect from young girls and teenagers, to want to dress and look like their favorite celebrity, but not grown 21+ women. There is a huge difference from admiring someone and losing sight of who you really are.I probably get about 5 friend request a day on twitter or facebook from adult women "named" something "Barbie" or "Minaj" or "5star chick"! When we see Nicki on videos or appearances she wears bra tops and leggings,with her hair long with a bang and pink extensions in the back, this has become HER signature style! And it works for her because she is a PERFORMER!! Its her costume! Nicki has even even said herself that whens she not performing she is more comfortable in sweats. I just feel that grown women who are not performers should not come of the house with just a bra on, it is quite tacky! A bra is an undergarment, you can still be sexy by covering up more and being yourself!
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Happy New Year!!


Happy 2010 everyone!!! The holidays were great and now I am back for blogging! I have to admit I was very happy to see 2009 go!! At the stroke of midnight on New Years I instantly felt better! I am claiming that 2010 will be my best year ever!! At the beginning of every year we all make NEW YEARS RESOLUTIONS, that we rarely stick to, so I never make any. Bu this year is different, I'm still not into the whole resolution thing but I will be making life changes!Here's my list.

1.Continue to be the best wife and mother that I possibly can be.
2. Get rid of people in my life who do not add to it in a positive way
3. Continue to do well in school, (I ended 2009 with a 4.0)!
4. Focus on my career! Well careers there is so much I want to do.
5. Network more! I have never really liked getting to know people but it is time that I venture out of my comfort zone, there are so many interesting individuals out there.
6. Start taking a little time out just for myself! As a mom and wife sometimes you lose yourself always doing so much for others, sometimes you just need ME time!
7. Stay consistent with working out. If you know me you know I go through spurts were I will workout everyday for months and then stop going for months and then back again. I must stay wit it this year!
8. Last but not least, remain Happy and Positive!! Life is not always perfect but mines is pretty great!


Did you make any resolutions??